This person doesn't really see you as —you're a projection of some perfect idea they have in their head, and anytime you shatter those expectations by being a normal, flawed, breathing human being, they're impossible to console.
Oh yeah, and someone being that obsessed with you is CREEPY.
For those of you who listened to that program, I also threw in a few new red flags. If your girlfriend is already withholding sex and you haven’t even proposed yet, be alarmed.
If you’ve proposed and she begins to withhold sex and chalks it up to stress from planning the wedding; be alarmed. However, there’s healthy conflict that results from disagreements and misunderstandings and then there’s high-conflict people. If you’re responsible for making her happy, you’ll also be the person that gets blamed for her unhappiness, frustration, and the rest of life’s petite traumata, which brings us to the next red flag. Her happiness shouldn’t come at the expense of your happiness.
Sh'reen Morrison had been on an online dating site for only a few weeks before she realized that something was seriously wrong with the man who had been actively pursuing her by text message and email.
They'd hit it off right away, and he said he lived just outside of Phoenix, which seemed relatively proximate to a woman in remote Yuma, Ariz. First, he was traveling through India with his daughter.
As soon as she told me that, my heart broke for her.
This girl was cheated on and she not only accepted his action and brushed it off, but made an excuse for why he did it. As much as you may love and care for your significant other, making excuses for their actions is never something you should have to do.
I had a friend whose boyfriend cheated on her one night when she wasn't around.
She told me it was her fault because she had a family party to go to that night and wasn't able to make it out to the bar with him and his friends.
important that you and your partner have a similar libido or, at the very least, a plan to handle any differences.