Alan Montecillo logged on to Ok Cupid and started filling out his profile.He wrote down his height (6 feet), listed his interests (podcasts, basketball, reading) and included photos of himself outdoors.When he signed up for Ok Cupid in 2013, he was in Singapore but began using it more frequently when he moved to Portland, Ore., the following year.
While this book is by no means focused on the topic of dating, Dr. Fiore’s principle that your worth as a person doesn’t need to be tied to your results (…or your relationship status) (Fiore, 2007).
Fiore’s strategies can be applied to help even the most shy, single man get out of his way so he can consistently approach and talk to women. If you can manage to separate your value as a person from your relationship status (or any other result you’re after) then speaking with women you’re attracted to will be far less threatening.
The downfall of this way of thinking is that many shy men get stuck endlessly putting this area off.
A more helpful way would be to get started with small, manageable 15-30 minute ‘chunks’ while remaining curious, consistent and open to learning and applying relationship strategies as you go (Fiore, 2007).
At times I am living it large and it is an epic movie length adventure, and at other times, I become lazy and boring and it becomes like a Twitter post.
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