Sara plopped herself down in the chair at work and gave me a frustrated grimace.
I took her look to mean her date the night before had gone less than stellar.
It is characterized by urgency, intensity, sexual desire, and or anxiety, in which there is an extreme absorption in another.
The truth is, this feeling of urgency and intensity or strong attraction toward another person is not necessarily a reliable indicator of whether you are in love or should immediately dive into a serious dating relationship.
Wikipedia defines infatuation as: the state of being completely carried away by unreasoning passion or love; addictive love.
Infatuation usually occurs at the beginning of a relationship.
We need to keep telling ourselves the basic truths of a healthy and truly loving relationship. While you spend time getting to know someone as a friend, you are able to see more clearly whether they are right for you and you for them.
There is no more valuable friend to a dating relationship than time. Impatience is a sure sign of relational immaturity that will lead to hurt unimaginable.
For the most part when having sex with another person you’re doing it with each other because there is at least some sort of “like-ability” there.
His arms were built like two stacked buildings and made me want to go on an urban exploration. There we were, getting hot and steamy and sweaty, when somehow with all the slickness and wetness our skin rubbed just right to create the loudest fart sound of all time. When two bodies strip naked in front of each other and rub up against each other, it can be immensely powerful. Many of us question if we truly have any idea what we’re doing when we’re doing it or if the other person might be weirded-out by certain desired requests.
It may even help facilitate a conversation about turn-ons, turn-offs, and how you and he can make your relationship even better.