A lot of Japanese women want a guy that tells them several times a day how much he loves them.
If they are really just looking for friends, why don’t they go on a free site like My Space, Facebook, or Friendster?
If it’s just a clever way to find booty calls, why don’t they go on Adultfriendfinder or Craigslist? Most men can tell a story about how they weren’t looking for anything serious and then fell in love.
For my part, I realize I’m at fault for waiting three months before asking for some type of commitment.
Hindsight has pointed out that on his profile he listed he wanted a “casual relationship” as opposite to my listing of wanting a “serious relationship”.
They’re not afraid of showing their feelings in public or telling their girls flat out how they feel about them. The extreme version of this is known as “gaijin hunter” and some will do everything for the sake of having one of those adorable “half”-kids (half Western, half Japanese) just to toss their foreign guy later on.
For foreign women it’s a completely different story.
So now I’m back on the online dating scene and I’m paying better attention to what guys are saying they are looking for in their profile.
Several guys put in their profile that they are looking for “friends” only, one guy even put that he’s too busy for a relationship right now. Are these guys really just wanting to take it slow and be friends first?
Japanese men seem to expect certain things from a woman.
Things that they fear a foreign woman would not agree to do (e.g.
My life is happy, but I really would love to share it with someone…