Meanwhile, the younger man is still in a stage of robust sexuality and more apt to explore his desires with a currently open and willing partner.These two factors create a powerful chemistry between the two." Watch Your Insecurities.They just had no idea what it took to look good at 50.
Believe it or not, lots of men want to date us -- older men, men our age and even younger men are trying to catch our eye.
" Who knew that as women over 50, we'd have so many options to choose from when it came to dating men?
There are many cougars who keep themselves very fit, but even the idea that it’s wrinkles/weight alone that will determine someone’s interest in dating is insulting.
Not all younger men like models and just as there are many types of younger girls for men to be interested in, there are just as many types of cougars as well.
Yes, I'd dated men three to five years younger but it felt like men 10 to 20 years younger were living on a different planet.
I must admit the latter, known as Cougar Dating, was a little hard for me to wrap my head around even as a Dating Coach.
It doesn’t help that women have been wired for centuries to equate their worth with youth and beauty. “It is often the limiting thoughts a woman has absorbed that can create problems for the couple,” says Winter.
“If she is fearful, insecure and doubting her merit, she will never be able to accept that her younger man loves her.” Winter adds that media reports about Demi Moore’s obsession with looking young are “the perfect example of how the ideal of youth and beauty can torture even the most lovely example of a modern-day woman.” The idea that one must maintain an illusion of youth to keep a younger partner is illogical. “It's an up-front buy that he's willing to accept, because he values the totality of who she is and what she brings to his life.” Talk about family planning.
En español │Unless you've been living under a rock, you no doubt know that the term "cougar" no longer just applies to dangerous mountain lions.
Now it's all about older women who hook up with younger men: Demi Moore, Joan Collins, Susan Sarandon, Naomi Watts, Madonna … As you read through the celebrity mags, you may find yourself wondering what life would be like if you, too, could prowl the cougar dens.
That old-fashioned advice is as irrelevant to cougar style as white gloves and a hankie. If you think you don't have to worry about what's underneath your clothes, then you haven't been with a 20-something guy since, yeah, you were 20-something.