Todd Valentine, a dating and relationships coach for men and chief of Real Social Dynamics Inner Circle, shared some of the most common fears his clients have, and how women can help ease a guy's fears and encourage him (if you want to, that is! He doesn't feel good enough for you."One of the most common questions I get asked is: ' What makes me special?I feel like a pretty girl has so many other better guys to choose from.' Guys, like women, are inundated with stereotypes and expectations about what kind of lifestyle we should have and be able to offer a girl," says Todd.Then, casually suggest something similar whether it be going out for wings or to the batting cages for the following Friday. Just make sure it's something you want to see, too.
Never empty your glass – You might be shaking like a leaf and nothing would settle your nerves more than to knock back the glass of wine on your table, but trust me, it’s not worth it.
If you want to stay in control of the date and keep him interested then take it easy and don’t overindulge.
It doesn't always need to be a tit for tat thing with giving and receiving.
The norm of so many of my relationships has been doing 80 percent of the work and taking 80 percent of the initiative in the bedroom.
How you can help him out: Give him a conversation opener, or make eye contact and smile a lot to be welcoming.
"Don't get upset if it takes us a while to text you back.
But a lot of times, the reason a guy isn't making his move isn't because he doesn't want to...
Men, just like us, have insecurities and fears about dating, and sometimes they need a push to put themselves out there. While I'm not always a fan of popular methods on how to "score hot women," these coaches who advise guys about women hold a valuable piece of information that's really useful to women: all the reasons guys seek their help in the first place.
I can't explain how refreshing it is when it feels like it's 50-50." Greg G."Regardless of what you've heard, realize that guys can indeed be 'just friends' with other girls. Some think there's no such thing as a platonic relationship with another girleither one or the other of you wants to hook up.
It's important for them to know that those relationships can and do exist with the opposite sex.
Try to gauge what the guy you've set your sights on is into.